Harry's World v2

Saturday, February 24, 2007

WOO HOO!!!

It's official! Harry will be a preschooler in the fall! He got his first choice school (okay, we got our first choice school). He's been waitlisted for 2 years and I was just about to put a deposit on Sage and Aisha's school (which is also very good, but not 1.5 miles away). This school offers a play-based curriculum, which is totally Harry. They also play outside as much as they can and have a great play yard that includes water activities. Independent thinking is encouraged and planning and re-planning is emphasized (I know, we tried it with Bailey. Maybe this time will work better). They also get catered lunches. And NO religious schooling.
This has been a huge weight off of my shoulders. There are lots of colleges out there, but not that many preschools. You need to be on some waitlists before kids are born...speaking of kids being born, now that I don't have preschool to worry about, I need to focus on making sure Menike will have room for an infant when the time comes....Julia will turn 1 this summer, but Sage's sibling is due by then....what to do, what to do....
You laugh, but this is serious. I get at least one call a week from friends, friends of friends, even strangers about childcare. The perfect situation is hard to find.

Thursday, February 22, 2007

Flashback!

JUST THE FACTS
Age: 2 months old
Height: 22 1/2 inches (40%)
Weight: 13 lbs. 6.2 oz. (90%)
Head: 16 1/2"
Eye color: Unknown
Hair color: Yet to be decided
Clothing Size: 3-6 months
Favorite Movie: Baby Neptune
Favorite Toy: The fishes on his swing
Favorite Activity: taking a bath

I was doing some stuff on Shutterfly when I came across a blog drom June 04. I thought I'd update with some current facts.
Age: 34 months
Height: Not sure, but he's grown 2 inches since December!
Weight: 34 pounds
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: "My have yellow hair"
Clothing Size: 2T, but I buy 3 now
Favorite Movie: (Dumbo) "Flying Elephant" or "Swiper and Sam" (Fox and Hound 2)
Favorite Toy: He LOVES his red car. And for those of you who worried about him playing with a baby stroller, he likes to push around his die-cast cars in it.
Favorite Activity: Driving his car outside.

Sunday, February 18, 2007

Worst Driver Ever

Communication

It's been a long weekend. Harry didn't nap. Kevin is trying to blow off some steam now on the exercise bike.

I had my review at work the other day. My manager mentioned I was one of the few people that seems to just deal with all of the changes and challenges in a fast paced work environment.

It seems, at the moment, every single TV channel is discussing autism. I've worked with autistic kids in the past and am pretty familiar, but have not interacted with autistic kids since long before Harry was born.

Harry interacts very well. He speaks well. He knows what he wants. He's even reading lots of books for 5-7 year olds. His favorite is Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day. He has it memorized and also seems to understand it and apply it appropriately.
He's smart, and even better (for me at least), as far as I can tell, for better or for worse, he is just like me. He seems to think the same way, have the same quirks (and compulsions), likes things I like/liked (except pickles, but we agree cantaloupe is gross).
I feel like I just connect with him, which is not something I typically experience with a lot of other people. This makes things easy as pie to know what is going on with him, whether he is being silly, or in the midst of a tantrum. There are still times I may raise my voice with him and not get through, but I still feel like I "get" him.
Maybe I would be accepting of him if he were a more difficult kid. Who knows. Maybe he is difficult. Kevin seems to think so! Maybe I am too calm. I did get a "How to bring out your inner bitch" calendar for my birthday. Regardless, I am really grateful that for me, Harry is an easy kid. I am really, really, glad for that.

Friday, February 16, 2007

Swipe Your Meal Card

I don't carry cash. I never really have. When I have it, I spend it. I have started to keep a small stash on me to tip valet's and get out of those rare parking garages that do not accept credit cards, but mostly, I use the trusty check card for everything.
I am pretty sure my dad cashes his paycheck and keeps some bills to use as spending money until he "goes to the bank" again. I've had an ATM card for as long as I've had a checking account. And I love that we can use them everywhere: McDonald's, Starbuck's, 7-11...It occurred to me today as I was paying for my Grilled Bacon Ranch salad that it is just like our meal cards in college that we used for everything from the dining hall to the convenience store. I think you can now even use it to order Papa John's. Not sure if it will buy you quarter pitchers at Bentley's though.
Anyway, it reminded me of the good 'ol days, and that I am a product of my environment.

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

Huh.

Um, it seems my dad was right, chicken soup is what you need for a cold. Per the Today Show, other methods such as Airborne, Echinnacea, Duck Hearts...very little efficacy. Chicken Soup, however, has actual scientific support behind it. Huh.
P.S. It's snowing.

Sunday, February 11, 2007

The Sweetest Thing

Harry went to bed 15 minutes ago. I just went in to check on him and found him quietly laying under the covers, feeding Baby his bottle. I told him he was a good big brother. I was informed he wants a real little brother. NOW.
Oh, and he can also pee standing up (into the potty).

Tuesday, February 06, 2007

NIghtswimming

Back from another weekend with the extended Wiley clan at Great Wolf Lodge up in the Poconos. This was my first trip with Harry without his Pack&Play to sleep in, and needless to say, it was a bit of an adventure.

He's been doing incredibly well in his big-boy bed, content to stay in int until someone comes into his room to grant him permission to get out every morning, and since night 1 hasn't gotten out after we leave the room for the evening, to play with any of his toys. We've got a good routine going between the 3 of us, and we all hold up our end of the collective bargain.

So they have these rooms that come with a "wolf den" that consists of a neat little bunkbed room within the room.



Harry's bed at home is kind of his own little cave, so it seemed like a good idea. So into the car went his sleeping bag, and at home stayed the pack&play, and off we went.

We drove up to Cherry Hill Thursday night to drop Bailey off and spent the night with Harry & Sleeping bag on the couch, and Kim and I on an air-bed right next to him. As planned, he fell asleep in the car on the drive up, but only about 20 or 30 minutes out from our destination. Upon arrival, it was as if he was groggy from his afternoon nap, but soon was completely alert. We spent a bit chatting and catching up, but then all tried to get to sleep. Harry was having none of it, and didn't seem too happy about the shadows passing cars were making on the opposite wall. He finally drifted off, but only for what amounted to 30-45 minute spats of "sleep" interrupted regularly by 45-60 minute bouts of rolling, kicking, squirming, and general "non-sleep."

Needless to say, made for a tough drive for me the next day to the Poconos.

Once we arrived at the Lodge, Harry immediately dubbed it the Great Big Lincoln Log House. He quickly found his niche in the playhouse in the main lobby that resembled his own. He did pretty well in the fact that he was the first kid in, and several others came in while he was manning the door. He was very quick to point out the play fireplace inside, and noted to newbies that it was hot and to be careful.



Off to the waterpark, and as I'm' certain will be noted elsewhere, to the Blue Slide. The one on the left if you're looking down. I feel the need to point this out, as with all of the other entertainment inherently designed in the park, Harry adamantly stuck to this ONE slide.

Which is not to say that he was greedy or selfish, by any means. In fact, after a single point of note to wait his turn, every subsequent trip from the bottom of the slide, thorugh the wading pool, up the steps and out, along the poolside, up the steps to the top of the slide, and into the "driver's seat," he made sure that EVERYONE else went first. I couldn't hear his conversations with everyone from where I was standing, but he looked to be clearly explaining and gesticulating to them that he preferred the blue slide on the left, and that he'd be happy to wait until they had taken their turn before he proceeded.

Needless to say, no naps on day one, and somehow he handled it all like a trooper, especially considering the lack of sleep the night before, limited snacks, and high chlorine content. Off to bed finally at around 8, after much sidetracking on my own art due to issues beyond my cotrol back at the office. Out like a light. Until about 12:30.

Kim and I stayed behind whilst PopPop offered the contents of his wallet to the Texas Hold 'Em game a few rooms down. We caught a flick on the in-house PPV (a bit heavier than we had planned, but Kim wanted to see it), and at one point Harry definitely woke up with what could loosely be referred to as a scream. Not a blood-curdling shriek by any means, but a certain commanding presence to it akin to "Swiper NO Swiping!" that often comes up during the course of TV time.

A quick jog across the room and into the Wolf's Den to calm him down, ad the cycle began again. 30-35 minutes on the clock, and the slumbered whines and gyrations continued. Throughout the night. At about 2 or 3 in the morning, seemed like a good idea to move him and his guys to the pull-out sofa in the main room, as maybe the cartoon wolf pup mural in the Den wasn't helping things. I proceeded to be kicked, slapped, punched, and generally mauled by the sleeping slugger on the half-hours. Once again, another rough night.

Saturday was quickly met by much of the same, playing the the lobby playhouse, Blue slide (on your left, if you please), foreshortened lunch, a minor snack, and much pooltime. big buffet dinner in the restaurant that evening with the entire group (50+?), and Harry passed with flying colors, considering (although I do think his ingested "dinner" consisted mainly of vanilla soft-serve with chocolate sprinkles). Off to bed around 730 or 8, and right to sleep. Kim wasn't feeling like too much more (I think the chlorine was getting to her too), so I went off to try to get in with the various Tony/Dominic combinations within the group.

After almost beating Dominic's Toni (little Dominic's mom -- not little Dominick's mom), Big Tony, Little Tony (big Dominic's dad, who's big in his own right), Dominic's Toni's dad, Dominic's Toni's mom, Kim's dad, big Tony's wife, and Toni's Dominic's mom at some new dice game they lured me into, I headed back to try to explain it all to Kim.

I'll give you one guess on how well Harry slept that night. You're right. He didn't. Which means, neither did I. More of the same backstroking across the sofa-bed, knee to the throat, elbow to the eye/nose/face (pick one), etc. Add to all of this, that somewhere along the line, he seemed to have picked up a lovely case of the sniffles, but still hasn't yet mastered the blowing of one's nose. So I had the sniffles going for me as well.

Sunday was check-out and drive home day.Surprisingly, we made it out of there very efficiently, and traffic was light enough that we made it back to Cherry Hill to drop of PopPop, pick up Bailey, and headed home to arrive by 5. Plenty of time to get Harry in the tub and his own bed, and still catch most of the commercials during the monsoon.

Thankfully, all he needed was his own bed. I don't know if this was the beginning of the dreaded night terrors that should be arriving any day now, or if it was just the unfamiliarity of the new bed(s), but whatever it was, it made for a crappy nightlife for me at east. But the look on his face all day certainly made up for all of it.

Smiles for Miles.